"THEY ARE ALL OKAY, and all those things could exist in THE SAME WOMAN. Women shouldn’t be valued because we are strong, or kick-ass, but because we are people. So don’t focus on writing characters who are strong. Write characters who are people."
but okay does anyone else have those friends who used to be together and were the cutest fucking couple in the world, and then they broke up but continued to be close friends and now they do things and say shit that just makes you ship them even harder than when they were an actual thing